Licensed Professional Counselor
Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor
745-A Johnnie Dodds Blvd.
Mount Pleasant, SC 29464
ph: (843)330-8408
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Reflections
Articles & Presentations
PREVENTION:
Darkness to Light is a non-profit organization whose mission is to reduce the incidence of child sexual abuse by shifting the responsibility of prevention from children to adults. The tools teach adults how to prevent, recognize and react responsibly to child sexual abuse and include the 7 Steps to Preventing Child Sexual Abuse and the consciousness training based Stewards of Children curriculum. For more information on how you can help prevent child sexual abuse, please visit www.darkness2light.org.
RESPONSE:
The Dee Norton Lowcountry Children's Center (DNLCC) serves child victims and their families primarily from Charleston and Berkeley counties. Over the history of DNLCC, children have been seen from across South Carolina. Child abuse victims reflect the community and come from every race and economic background. DNLCC provides services to children and their families regardless of their ability to pay. Click here to go directly to their website.
The National Child Traumatic Stress Network offers many resources for parents, professionals, and educators. Click here to go directly to their website.
Below are some links to specific resources.
It's Never Your Fault: the truth about sexual abuse - For Teens
Warning Signs in Children and Adolescents of Possible Child Sexual Abuse- For Adults
Websites
Pick of the Month
In April of 2008, Self magazine reported on a study done with Cynthia Bulik, PhD – a specialist in the field of eating disorders - which indicated that 75% of women had eating issues of some kind. Only 10% of those qualified for the types of eating disorders we often hear about, such as anorexia and bulimia. This means that a whopping 65% of women may fall into the EDNOS category, regardless of the fact that they may never have heard of it. A similar study with men has not yet been done, but we know they struggle too. In the article that introduced the study, the following six categories were used to describe the majority of disordered eaters:
Calorie prisoners are terrified of gaining weight, tend to see food as good or bad and feel extremely guilty if they indulge in something that's off-limits.
Secret eaters binge on junk food at home, in the car—wherever they won't be found out.
Career dieters may not know what to eat without a plan to follow; despite their efforts, they're more likely than other types to be overweight or obese.
Purgers are obsessed with ridding their body of unwanted calories and bloat by using laxatives, diuretics or occasional vomiting.
Food addicts eat to soothe stress, deal with anger, even celebrate a happy event; they think about food nearly all the time.
Extreme exercisers work out despite illness, injury or exhaustion and solely for weight loss; they are devastated if they miss a session. (Self Magazine, April 2008)
"GOT EATING ISSUES?....We Get It.
FINDINGbalance is a faith-based nonprofit organization dedicated to helping those who struggle with eating and body image issues, particularly EDNOS
(Eating Disorders Not Otherwise Specified).
Whether you’re overweight, underweight, or in-between, if you have issues with food, you are not alone. And you don’t have to stay where you are. Freedom is out there. It’s all about finding balance."
The above was taken from Finding Balance's website. This organization is absolutely phenomenal! The website alone offers an exhaustive, comprehensive library of resources - some for free and other at a very nominal cost (i.e. 1.99). In addition to those resources, the small group curriculum offers a structural foundation for anyone to implement. I am so thankful for Constance and her team at Finding Balance for their tireless dedication to helping people find balance and live in freedom from the yokes of slavery that have entangled them in these areas listed above.
Resources
Trauma
Parenting From the Inside Out by Dan Siegel
Boundaries with Kids by Cloud & Townsend
Boundaries with Teens by Cloud & Townsend
Parenting with Love and Logic by Foster Kline
Raising Cain by Dan Kindlon & Michael Thompson
Character Matters by John and Susan Yates
The Disappearing Girlby Lisa Machoian
Mean Girls by Hayley DiMarco
Lies Young Women Believeby Nancy DeMoss
Odd Girl Out
Queen Bees and Wannabees
Marriage
The Seven Desires of Every Heart by Mark and Debra Laaser
Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts by Les and Leslie Parrot
Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Love and Respect by Emerson Eggerichs
Love and War by John and Stasi Eldredge
Torn Asunder by Dave Carder
Shattered Vows by Debra Laaser
Back from Betrayal by Jennifer Schneider
Before a Bad Goodbye by Tim Clinton
When Two Become One by Christopher McCluskey
Honey, I don't have a headache tonight by Sheila Wray Gregoire
The Secrets of Eve: by Archibald Hart, Catherine Hart Weber, and Debra Taylor
The Sexual Man by Archibald Hart
Healing the Incest Wound by Christine Courtois
The Sexual Healing Journey by Wendy Maltz
Door of Hope by Jan Frank
Wired for Intimacy: How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain by Williams Struthers
False Intimacy: Understanding the Struggle of Sexual Addiction by Harry Schaumberg
Sheet Music by Dr. Kevin Leman
Turn Up the Heat: Couple's Guide to Sexual Intimacy by Dr. Kevin Leman
Healing Wounds of Sexual Addiction by Dr. Mark Laaser
Crisis in Masculinity by Leanne Payne
The Broken Image by Leanne Payne
Restoring the Christian Soul Through Healing Prayer by Leanne Payne
Can Homosexuality be Healed? by Francis MacNutt
The Heart of Female Same-Sex Attraction by Janelle Hallman
Gay Children, Straight Parents: A Plan for Family Healing by Richard Cohen
Love is an Orientation by Andrew Marin
Anxiety
The Anxiety Cure by Archibald Hart
Adrenaline and Stress by Archibald Hart
Margin: Restoring Emotional, Physical, Financial and Time Reserves to Overloaded Lives by Richard Swenson
Addiction and Grace by Gerald May
Safe People by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
Will be adding more by topic each month.
Please email to info@sglpc.net if there are specific areas of interest.
Copyright 2009 Sherri S. Grady, LPC/S. All rights reserved.
745-A Johnnie Dodds Blvd.
Mount Pleasant, SC 29464
ph: (843)330-8408
fax: (843)284-8277